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E-book Title: Mastery Guide to Saving Marriage & Stopping Divorce
Author: Katie Zaltman
Book Description: Dear Reader,
So you tried everything from marriage counseling to what your friends told you, and you may be a little hesitant in trying out other methods in saving your marriage? With the divorce rate at record highs, more than ever people are seeking marriage counseling, but it is expensive and you usually end up paying for the service even if it doesn't work. Most of all, it requires the attendance of your partner who will most likely refuse. Most couples who enter marriage counseling already have one foot out the door already. I am Katie Zaltman and I am the head author of the book. Personally, I've been a marriage counselor and relationship therapist for over thirty years. During this time, I have met with over ten thousand couples and assisted them in saving their marriage. As a result, I have decided to share what I have learned with you. As a member of a team of four marriage counselors and relationship gurus, we have in total saved tens and thousands of marriages with more than a 90% success rate. We have seen the divorce methods that have worked and that have not. We use our background and our years of experience to ensure that the methods we described to you in this book are valuable and what you will find will be quite surprising.
It has been our lifelong career to stop divorces & save marriages. Our team of four marriage counselors and relationship experts have each been in the industry for more than twenty years. We have saved more marriages than any other team of relationship counselors. Let us show you what works and what doesn't work
Imagine having your friends and family being impressed at how quickly both of you managed to reconcile your differences.
The majority of husbands and wives we've seen haven't had any luck using common "marriage saving techniques" in solving their marriage problems. We will start with a couple who was a client of our practice two years ago. The couple married in their freshmen year of college and had a good relationship until they were in their late twenties. Eventually, they became disinterested in each other. Here is an example of their common conversation:
Larry: Sorry I came home late, I had to work late today.
Sally: You always come home late. Cook your own dinner.
Larry: I am sorry about this honey. This won't happen again. I had to attend an important meeting.
Sally: I'm tired of this marriage and I feel that I would be better off without you.
Larry: Honey, I really didn't mean to do this. I will change for you and do what you want. I truly love you and I want our marriage to work
Larry does the most common thing any man would do. He declares his love for his wife because he thought this was what she wanted to hear. But, in fact, this was not what she really needed. In times like this she does not want to argue with her husband or be reassured by his continual lies or promises. Unfortunately, his common strategy does not work.
What does work?
Here is an example of a couple who lived thru a long and successful marriage for over 50 years.
...the successful couple...
Alan and Sarah have been married for over 50 years, but they are no different than any other couple; they constantly get into arguments and disagreements. For example, Alan wants to watch a football game, but Sarah wants Alan to spend time with her shopping. Yet, even though there are disagreements, they have managed to happily live with each other over these disagreements, reconciling their differences, permitting them to live happily together. The couple never even attempted to file a divorce. They always figure a resolution to their problems. They know how to work around their differences.
Alan always comes home late from work, but Sarah accepts that. Sarah works in the computer industry where majority of the employees are male and they offer to have business meetings with her from time-to-time. She eats out with them more often than she eats out with her husband even after work. But Alan never minds. What could keep them together? All of their peers and initially we wondered.
Unlike most couples, they have a connection that links them together during all times. They figure the secrets of keeping their marriage successful. They have what keeps most marriages alive, while other couples are seeking for them.
...So What is their secret?...
So, what exactly is it that Alan and Sarah have in their relationship that keeps them together during their tough times that Larry and Sarah do not?
What is it that allows them to...
- Live a happy life
- Not feel jealous of partner's actions
- Get over with marital problems quickly
- Trust each other like the best of friends
- Have a relationship that allows them to connect emotionally
Could it be...
...a special innate connection that they were born with?
... similar personality types?
...custom or religious issues?
...or are they just lucky to still be together?
Actually, it is none of the above.
When your marriage is in distress, you do not want to argue with your partner. You do not want to tell your partner you love her nor does she want to hear your false promises of how you will try to improve your marriage. Forget these common strategies, they will not work. Our secret techniques that you will find in our book will teach you exactly what to do. Our guide contains everything you need to save your marriage.
"Immediately see Instant Improvements to your marriage after trying only 1 technique"
Within seconds find out ...
The missing key ingredient needed to save your marriage
What words you need to say to get your spouse back
Why advice others give you are the worst thing that can happen to you
How easy it is to apply our methods thanks to the mistakes made by others
How to resolve lingering conflicts
What men and women want in their marriage or relationship
Why you haven't been able to improve your marriage more up to this point
The differences between the thought pattern of spouses in successful and unsuccessful marriages
And Much Much More!
Let's take a quick look at some of the stuff you'll be learning from this great book.
1. Discover exactly what is involved in a successful marriage. It is more common than you think.
2. Learn powerful strategies for bringing back passion into your relationship. No matter how long you have been married. Anyone can follow these methods and succeed.
3. Know how to resolve problems with inequality in your marriage. Learn how to handle gender roles in your marriage including the person who makes the most money.
4. How power can be destructive and bring a downtime in every relationship
5. You do not have to convince your spouse to change. You can work on the relationship even if your spouse doesn't see the need.
6. Why arguing is a waste of time and the amazingly secret to get around it.
7. Learn how to avoid getting your marriage stuck on things that happened in the past.
8. Understand why the real problem causing an abusive marriage may be something that you, not your spouse is actually doing.
9. How dressing for success is essential in saving your marriage.
10. How to work at your relationship effectively without being pushed away by your partner.
11. Improving and making your communications skills more effective.
Plus much more!
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| Reader Reviews for "Saving Marriage" | | |
Reviewed by on 2007-08-21
Good book. Useful info
Reviewed by on 2007-06-04
Excellent Book. Helpful suggestions.
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