Dear Friend:
Do you love your man but not his sex drive?
Do you feel bad (sometimes) about leaving him frustrated?
Does his frustration make him act in ways that are unattractive (or slightly repulsive?)
Do you ever find yourselves arguing over sex?
If so, this may be the most important letter you ever read.
You see, I thoroughly understand the downward spiral of romance apathy, frustration, withdrawal, denial and resentment. (And having no one to talk to about it)
In fact...
For several years in our marriage, I was in love with my husband but full of stress when it came to sex.
I was busy taking care of our little kids, working outside the house, stressing about the finances, cooking and cleaning (which I hated)... and mostly